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Military dating format

Post by Vozout » Thu Jun 21, 2018 12:59 pm

I've been deployed for a (6) month now, and i should be back in Dec that makes it (12) month babe, But i ve a feeling that my deployment might spill over to an extra (3)month,
Babe, i've been there a couple of times....

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Hello ,

I hope you had a nice restful sleep last night. I was really happy to chat with you on-line last night. After we chatted I couldn't help but return to your profile and keep looking at your picture.I am really interested in getting to know you better, You seem to have the same values and commitment that i have. I just wish we lived closer so we can meet face to face,because it is so much easier to relate to someone when you can see in there eyes and see there physical reactions.

So tell me are you one that like to go out a lot or can just settle on staying home.I enjoy going out once in awhile, but i also like to stay home with a good movie and some snuggling. In the summer i enjoy being at the beach, i love the ocean, either lying on the beach or going for walks and even bike riding.I also love music, dancing, music is my relaxer.

What kind of food do you like? I enjoy steak,ribs,chicken,seafood, Chinese food. I love a good barbeque. You mentioned your age what month and date?we seem to have much in common,we both are looking for a honest, loving, loyal,respectful relationship. I am looking for that missing piece of my heart to fill. As we get to know each other more on-line, I do hope we will meet face to face.

I awoke at 6am, unable to sleep i decided to write to you. Now it is 7:15AM And i need to get some more sleep.

Have a great day !
I will be anxiously waiting your email in return.
Alfred

1} Are you the key to my tower....
Hello,
Thanks so much for the mail you really make me happy and i will like to know you more better. You are a very interesting woman and I really want to learn more about you. Will you give me a chance?...I want you to know that age means nothing in a relationship what matter most is our heart togetherness and the miles between us is just a number of place i believe we can work on it okay just let believe in the real love and heart sent from heaven above okay i believe every thing will work out fine okay. Just let have faith in God i believe no one is perfect on earth.

Thanks for your interest in me ,I am new to this online thing so please bear with me. I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that I am interested in getting to know more about you after reading your profile. I guarantee that I am a nice man and know how to treat a woman...I'm an US army deployed oversea,Currently in Farah, Afghanistan, i live in Susanville, CA Five years later my father was staying with my aunt in Arlington VA and my mom live in CA . My aunt told me that my father wasn’t feeling well and was going to bed early. For some reason I woke at 4:00am the next morning and I drove in to check on him. When I arrived at the house, my aunt told me that father just has the flu. They had him buried in six inches of blankets and yet the bed was still shaking. he was burning up with fever. I rushed him to the hospital. The doctors wanted to admit him but there wasn't a single bed available in the whole hospital. We waited 3 hours and finally a bed opened up in the intensive care unit for cardiac surgery. They had just finished hooking him up to the heart monitor when she experienced the first of seven heart attacks.

He was at the only place in the whole world that had the technology to save him life.He spent the next six months in the hospital recovering and then came to live with my family another six months to regain his strength. He lived four more years before passing in 1995. I now know why I lost my job in 1995. It was a blessing. I do believe in a God. I believe that he guides us through life and helps us find our destiny.My dear i believe there is a reason we met. The sparkle in your eyes,pretty smile, and the warmth in your heart all make me happy. I am a real person with real feelings and I believe you are the same. It believe you to be an honest and caring person, it will be an honor to get to know you more.

In your profile you seems to be a very down to earth woman and I really admire that! .I guess I will leave you with this for now. I hope your day went well and I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks for reading this! I practically wrote you a book! Hehe!let me know what you think about my pictures hope i don't scared you off lol..
Have a lovely Sunday and God bless
Alfred

2} You are welcome
How are you doing hope all is fine with you,Thanks so much for your reply you really make me happy to be honest with you i really want to know you more better if you don't mind. Pretty i have read your profile very well and i believe you imperfections are perfect to me so i believe we can both work things out all we need to do is just to have faith in God and i know things will work our based on believe,honest,trust and open-minded.

I want you to have faith in God that this our friendship will work out and leads us to something better in the future.. Baby i want you to know that the age difference between us is just a number i don't care about it all i want you to know that is just a number its what we can both work on it...How is your health which is most important to me...this are what am i like? I am 6ft:0inch .black hair and black eyes...I am extraordinarily unique but with some average facets.I would enjoy watching while cuddled up on a couch with someone(especially if a cracking fire could be included).

To tell you little more about myself am a man bless with a lovely daughter name Sherry, I lost my son with my late wife some years ago on theirway coming back from Russia in a plane crash 5 years ago, I'm Italian American but I was born and brought up in Italy and my mother is from Susanville, CA that where i live ,a Average Body , mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person.I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener.

I am sensitive, sentimental, compassionate, and caring, and can be moved to tears by something highly emotional. Life has thought me some hard lesson. Take the knowledge and wisdom I’ve gained and combine them with my personal qualities, and you have somebody who will someday be the best thing that ever happened to someone.The one who gains my affection will find me loyal, sincere and honest. Honesty is something I value highly, and when I have met people this way before, things have not gone beyond the first meeting if they turn out to have misrepresented them self in any way. I am here to broaden my opportunities to meet someone, but at the same time I am very content with where my life is now. I am not troubled by my past life.i hope to be in a good relationship would be icing on the cake....

I love easy-going, pacific and quiet people who are not full of themselves.I even like people who Are a bit clumsy and unsure... it reveals a genuine human side. I believe that perfection does not exist and I am not expecting it. Life has toughen me a little and made me realize the importance of the essential and simple things in this life. I am a bit on the marginal side with my own different idealistic and romantic views and beliefs about this life, this world. My soul sees the world the way it could be, the way it should be (equal & fair) so it makes it hard to keep faith in better days... I believe in love, peace, harmony, tolerance, kindness, humility, understanding,fairness, justice, equality for all mankind but I am afraid I won't witness that in my lifetime.

I love to play golf and I enjoy chilling` with my friend/family and love playing with kids , I like going to the movies , or watching movies in my room , I like swimming , fishing, traveling , going bowling and also a good cook.I am a family oriented person and There is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself.. I am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me.I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone!. So come on and share it all with me.
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I am an honest, trustworthy and kind hearten person and looking for someone that has the same values. I believe to build a relationship it takes a lot of work because am deaf since my parent dead and I believe you cannot do that seeing someone just once or twice a week and I like to spend a lot of time with the special person in my life. I do not play games and I am looking for someone with the same values and goals as myself. I have a saying and that is....Life Is What You Make Of It. I will give it a shot! I am genius, passionate person, who tends to wear his heart on his shelve. I am romantic at heart, I believe that it is possible to have strong believes, and stay to true to yourself and still have fun and live life. I try to live my life being the best "me" I can be, improving as I go. I think one of the biggest gifts we are giving besides life itself is the gift of love and laughter and the biggest blessing we can find is someone who we can share our dreams with as friends, lovers, and partner in life together.
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My eyes are open and they don't always like what they see.. I am an observer, philosopher, dreamer,lover whose heart is broken on a daily basis by all the worries, struggle, violence, corruption,greed, hostility, hate, injustices, destruction, indifference... I get along fine in any social settings but since I am shy and tend to be uncomfortable around most people, I tend to prefer the comfort of my own little space where I evolve freely and don't have to prove myself to people who are usually judgmental and who don't really care. I am getting tired of trying to "fit in". What I like: * Nature (explore National Parks, Beaches, Conservation areas, Lakes, etc..) * Walking, biking, hiking, swimming, camping, canoeing, etc... * Country drives *Photography (amateur) * Movies * Music * Browsing the World Wide Web (searching interesting and educational information) * Flea Markets...I.......have the following interests.... playing cards, going for walks, spending quiet time at home and also fishing and camping.

I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the relationship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This relationship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.From the pure heart that cares hope to read from you soon
Till then God bless
Alfred

3} We have a lot in common
Baby,
Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me as it actually made my day!!!, you sound like all i want , you are my perfect match... I will like us to talk on phone but you most know that i have an accent wish it Italian accent and i believe with time you will get use to it let me know what you think about it?.

I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today.The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality Relationship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions.

Well to tell you what am really looking for on internet dating am looking for a woman that will be able to listen to me , communicate her feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by me, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every-way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat me right.....

I know you will think what is an handsome guy like me doing on here lol just pulling your legs .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting because of my work but right now i think is time for me to start a home with a woman of my heart, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise .

I will like to learn a little about you that why i have a very reason i am interested in establishing a raltionship with you is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a relationship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a man of substance and I am very unique in today's society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a man of integrity and my word is my honor!.

I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others.For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart.

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a relationshop with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.Feel free to write me back directly..
Hope to read from you again
God Bless
Alfred

4}More About Me This Is My Personalty Chart
Hello Dear,
Am very happy to read from you pls bear with me for writing you much about myself pls take your time to read the mail.You really bow my mind and u really make me happy and am glad to meet a woman like you all i will do now if to keep my prayer up to God in heaven to call this a date for me and you. I want us to build up a very strong and honest,caring,open-minded relationship and i know it will last long and forever all we need is to be honest with each other okay.Am looking for a woman that i will be able to see in person because i believe seeing you in person is very important because i will look straight into your eyes to read your heart just to know how you feel for me but before that let get to know each other more better via mail after we move to phone so that we both make arrangement on when and where we will meet, hope you understand.

Here is to tell you more about me I'm a sweet, straight-forward, non-quitter with a heart of gold and strong family values. I love bike riding, rollerblading - learning how to - swimming and basically try to keep fit while taking the 'work' out of 'work out'. I am an avid reader, love museums, walks on the beach,visiting places of interest .... Having said that, it is not what I do, but whom I do it with, that matters. Truly good people are a dying breed, accordingly, I appreciate goodness wherever I find it and never take it, or the person for granted. I believe in taking things slowly because that greatly improves the odds of my getting it right. To know me - for those willing to take the time - is to love me.

I am an intelligent, but humorous person. I love adventure and traveling. Life is to short to just sit at home. I love motorcycles, horses, the water ( whether it is the lake, ocean, or creek), picnics, listening to the rain, even sometimes walking in it when it is a misty rain. Also, like walking in the snow especially in the wood where it is soooo quiet you can hear everything. I am a country man in one respect but have lived in many cities...adjustment is easy for me. I like to joke around and have a good time...I don't like to argue, fight, whatever. BUT if I am discussing something and I know that I am right...i will fight you tooth and nail...lolololol I like to be held and I like to hold too! I am a touchy feel person... I want to have someone in my life to do things with...go places together or just hang out at the house and do stuff there.

I really believe in seeing each other face in person but am a kind of guy that shy in the first place but later cash up with you lol hope that don't scare you off lol.... I really care to meet you but let get to know each there more better on here so that when we get to meet everything will be easy hope you understand me, Am willing to relocate for you just have that in your mind. Am looking for someone who wants to be with me and me alone....no sharing. Someone who I can love, respect, and just be there for her no matter what.....Yes i guess put her up on a pedestal as she would me....To walk into a room and as soon as we see each other, just grin from ear to ear....someone to love me thru thick and thin.....moods and all....hehehehe.Happen to love making love with someone special....I analyze things way too much....I am a person that will do just about anything for anyone..unless they screw me over.I am not perfect by any means....I do make mistakes...just as I am sure you do too!

Well i really believe that there is a reason for everything in life and there is a reason for us to meet.. More about me...Am O'Connor A. Scott by name and i am originally from Milan In Italy but live in CA, because my mother is from California, CA USA.
Am an U.S. army i love my job so much, Am looking for a partner who doesn't mind sharing everything: the good times and the bad times with me. Someone to watch a good movie with, for great conversation and see the world with. Good company and conversation essential. I've got a soft spot for intelligent and cute woman with opinions of their own: good looks are a bonus but am not interested in look but i am interested in the kind of person you are....

I want you to be able to talk to me and if i say something that doesn't sit right with you then tell me....and also the other way round too!...we had agreed that we would be open on honest with each other right? That is what i am trying to do.....but if I have scared you off then there isn't anything i can do or say that will make things right...i know how to be faithful to someone i love and cherish with all my heart and soul.And love is the meaning that 2 souls love each other no other man or woman can be seen in there eyes.i am just a simple man who wants to be loved and cared for and give the same in return, not for just sex alone.Sex u can have with anyone but making love is when 2 people feel the love in each others heart, someone they don't wanna be without.Love is until dead of one of the other.I have never been loved that way and when u love someone that doesn't love u feels as if a knife has been stuck in Ur heart..love is very beautiful thing to be shared with 2 people.

Above all you must have a good sense of humor . Whilst I have my serious side, I tend to see the lighter and funnier side of life.. please note that you must laugh at all my jokes! I consider myself a sincere man, very easy going, kindhearted, intelligent(well, clever enough to run a business, but I'm not about to win any Nobel prizes), hardworking, loyal, understanding, creative man that places spirituality as an important part of my life...lol, honest and open. I can also be funny and I have a quick wit as well.

I am a happy person, responsible, honest, considerate, caring, sincere, serious, and have a good sense of humor.I am looking for a woman to possibly develop a relationship with. I am a Christian and I put my faith in God above all other things. I am the type of man who always "ask" when in doubt. I belief, that GOD provides solutions to many situations. My love life is very real and i try to take my time to acquire one....am an adventurous type but i guess most of them am from work ....i feel like tasting another form of adventure like you said on pleasure...

I do love the out of doors, mountains to the ocean. Have a great passion for animals and especially riding horses, Love to drive the mountains to the ocean and through the Redwoods. A few stories to share and experiences to remember. Wide range of passions and am blessed with an attitude of gratitude. Pretty i will like to hear your voice if you don't mind.. But remember that i have an accent...Italian accent i was Bron and raised in Italy.

Favorite Movie: The Sound of Music,Favorite Book: Any sort of mystery book,Favorite Food: Italian and English,Favorite Music: Country and Soft Rock,Dress Style: Simple elegance as well as relaxed casual dress,Humor: Quick-witted,Hobbies & Interests: I am passionate about dolphins because of their intelligence, fragile beauty, strength and socialization. Other hobbies/interests,include paddle-boating, traveling and trying various ethnic foods.Traveled: I have traveled to UK,KOREA,KUWAIT,AFGHANISTAN and Future destinations include Hawaii and Aruba.

Cultural Adaption: I enjoy experiencing different cultures. Adaptability is not an issue for me.Romance: Escape to a beach resort. Cuddling in front of a fireplace, sharing wine, good food and a candle-lit, sensual bath in a suite.Personality: I am a fun-loving, independent man who loves to laugh and live life to the fullest.. I am a gentle, understanding and compassionate man who loves the Lord. Mutual respect, love, empathy, and value of family are the beginnings of which to build a foundation for a healthy, happy, spiritual and strong family.

My goal is a monogamous relationship leading to a lifelong companionship... a joining at the heart to let us share all life has to offer,So i believe that i have told you about myself and i would really love you to tell me more about yourself too and hoping to read back from you soonest.
Till Then..Keep Smiling...
Alfred

5} About My Job
Hello Baby,
How are you doing this lovely day am very happy to read from you. Here is to tell you more about my job am writing you all this in other to know more about my as a Petrol Chemical engineering..Just hope you will understand....Petrol Chemical engineering is involved in the exploration and production activities of petroleum as an upstream end of the energy sector. Upstream refers to the process of finding and extracting oil, which is usually buried deep beneath the earth's surface, to provide a continuous supply to consumers "downstream". Petroleum engineering covers a wide range of topics, including economics, geology, geochemistry, geomechanics, geophysics, oil drilling, geopolitics, knowledge management, seismology, tectonics, thermodynamics, well logging, well completion, oil and gas production, reservoir development, and pipelines.

Overview Petroleum engineering has become a technical profession that involves extracting oil in increasingly difficult situations as the "low hanging fruit" of the world's oil fields are found and depleted. Improvements in computer modeling, materials and the application of statistics, probability analysis, and new technologies like horizontal drilling and enhanced oil recovery, have drastically improved the toolbox of the petroleum engineer in recent decades.

As mistakes may be measured in millions of dollars, petroleum engineers are held to a high standard. Deep-water operations can arguably be compared to space travel in terms of technical challenges. Arctic conditions and conditions of extreme heat have to be contended with. High Temperature and High Pressure (HT-HP) environments that have become increasingly commonplace in today's operations require the petroleum engineer to be savvy in topics as wide ranging as thermohydraulics, geomechanics, and intelligent systems.

Petroleum engineers must implement high technology plans with the use of manpower, highly coordinated and often in dangerous conditions. The drilling rig crew and machines they use become the remote partner of the petroleum engineer in implementing every drilling program. Understanding and accounting for the issues and communication challenges of building these teams remain just as vital to the petroleum engineer as ever.

Baby this is all about my work i think if anybody ask you about me and my job you can tell he/she, Now its your turn is that anything you will like to tell me about your job? feel free okay.

Hope to read back from you soonest
Have a wonderful day
Alfred

6} My Personality

Sweetie,
Its was nice to read from you to be honest with you, You really make my day thanks so much for the mail you are a good match i will say you are welcome to my world, will you welcome me to yours lol..Thank you very much for the mail once again,Actually you make !!!, you sound like all i want , you are my perfect match, I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am honey i want you to pls set down a read this mail try your best to reply back let me know how you feel pls make sure you reply back..

I'm writing to let you know how I feel about you. I don't know how to tell you face to face, so I am going to put my feelings in words, on this page, I haven't been the same since when i started chanting with you . My feelings I just can't seem to tame. I am starting to care for you in a different way. i love everything about you when i saw your pics! Your smile, your eyes, your hair, etc.... I am pretty sure you got the point. I can't wait to see u in person , Pretty you got my feeling stupid lol, because I know you may not feel the same, but my feelings just keep growing . Well, what I am trying to tell you is I am SPRUNG, and I am falling in love with you - yes, this is true! But I understand if you don't feel the same. I know this sounds lame, but I have to let you know how I really feel. And this is no lie, I am for real will u be mine?


Baby i have promise not to lie for any woman that i will care to meet as a person because from the very first day of my life i have make promise to God to give me the grace not to care for two woman in my heart because i hate if someone share my love with someone else. Well to tell you more about my personality and my parent... I make friends easy and have an outgoing personality. I like people and can walk into a room not knowing anyone and have a dozen friends before I leave. I can make you laugh out loud. If you've had a bad day, I can cheer you up in no time. I'm not a fake or full of myself but someone looking for away to build my lady up instead of tearing her down. Generous, Gregarious, Loyal, Honest, A very good sense of humor, dependable and caring (to name but a few). Be nice to me and I shall reciprocate.Someone not afraid to show their feelings and who will always discuss a problem with me rather than "bottle-it-up". (I don't know, if you don't tell me).

Communication is important in any relationship. I’m looking for a woman who is elegant, caring, considerate, intelligent, noble, loves life, enjoys meeting all kinds of people, traveling and nature. I dream about faithful, deep and passionate love based on relationship and leading to a wonderful life in a relationship.

My parent's personality.. My parent's live in CA before my father died of cancer ever seen i lost my father things have been very hard for me because he never let me work or do anything myself... Am really from a very good family and am the only child of my parent my fathers have a lot of things that i never think of working on my own not until he die before i knew that life is not easy..lol well i will tell you more better when we get to meet each in person soonest.Thanks so much for the mail once again i will be looking forward to read back from you soonest also to chat with you pls let me know when you will be online okay..
Have a sound sleep
Alfred

7}Question for you
Hello Baby,
How are you doing this lovely day hope all is fine with you over there i just want you to know that have been thinking about you and i think we need to know what will both like and dislike. I will like you to pls answer my questions.

What do u like in a man?
Are u a player games or for real?
What’s your bad experience in meeting a man on the Internet?
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
Do you treat others as you would like to be treated?
Have you ever gotten into a fight with someone?
How often do you lose your temper?
What do you do when you're alone?
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
What are your three favorite states?
Do you have any pets?
Do you enjoy cooking?
Are you patient?
Are you romantic?
Do you love unconditionally?
What's more important to you, love or money?
Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate?
When you go anywhere are you usually on time?
How often do you like to go out?
When dining out what food do you enjoy?
Do you enjoy going to the movies?
How much do you enjoy going to live theater?
How much do you enjoy a walk in the park?
How much do you enjoy a walk on the beach?
How much do you like reading?
Do you own your home?
Which sports do you most enjoy watching?
What's your favorite car and how many do you have?
What type of music do you prefer?
What are your three favorite movies?
Who is your favorite actor?
Who is your favorite actress?
Who is your favorite singer?
If you had a Time Machine, where would you go?
If you were granted one wish, what would you ask for?
Baby i will be looking forward to read back from you soonest...Have a wonderful day and God bless
Alfred

8}Answer for you
Thanks so much for your answers you really make me happy i believe with this we can never hurt each other in anyway here are my answers to the question.

My woman should have confidence in herself as 2nd head of the household. She will treat me as an equal in the relationship. Have a good sense of humor. Enjoy family gatherings because my family is a part of me and the same with her family. Sometimes do things with me that he may not enjoy too much, but know that I would do the same for her. Be a best friend and companion. Everyone has 'issues' or 'baggage' they bring into any relationship. Accept me with all may wrinkles and I will do the same with her.

I am what I am. What you see is what you get. Never have been an emotional games player - never will. In real life, I am real. I have my self-doubting moments and moments where I am full of myself. If I get patted on the back at work, it makes me feel good. If my woman says something nice to me or about me, I'm on cloud nine.

I love Cooking hang outs with friends, read a good book, watch movies at the theater or on TV, walk the dogs, arts & crafts - I like making things, sometimes home chores catch up with me so I have to do them, remodeling my house (tiles, painting, etc.), sometimes I like just driving around to see what's going on around the area or drive to a restaurant someone has said good things about.....You are the first and i believe you will be the last.

Yes I am. I still talk with 2 women who are friends. They are both disabled and do not leave home very much. They just want to talk to someone. I'm sure they talk to several men. We talk about everyday things or I listen to their latest news. Also, But they know they can come to me and I will listen and tell them honestly what I think if they want an answer from me.

Most of the time i treat my woman like the best woman in the world, but I am not perfect. Sometimes, like anyone, someone really makes me upset and I do not act honorably. But for the most part I try.

Sure. The last person was my best friend, Frank. he said something that hurt my feelings and I walked away after I said something ugly to him.. We have made up. I approached him because I was the stupid one. he forgave me.

Not too often. Of course, it depends on the stress I am feeling. I am pretty open about my feelings.

Read. Watch TV. Cook. Sit outside in my backyard. Sleep.
If you could live anywhere, where would it be? Where ever family is. It doesn't matter where a house is, it's where the home is.

I lives areas like Louisiana and Texas. I'm not sure about a third. I guess it depends on what vacation I'm taking. I love pets but i don't have one. Yes i love to cook and i can make my own spaghetti sauce, cook a pretty good brisket, as well as, many other dishes.

Am romantic i like holding hands, kissing, writing sweet notes, just being together enjoying life.Try to love unconditionally. I am not perfect - no one is. I accept people as they are.

I can support myself. Two college degrees. Parents love me,I love them. Looking for the age old cliche' - soul mate love. Yes. When I was living with my parents and much younger - probably not.

I would like to have a date night. For the most part, I like time at home relaxing. Am not a party animal but I do like entertaining.When dining out what food do i enjoy? I like food. Can't take very spicy curry or some asian cuisines that are very spicy. Do like seafood, chicken, pork, or steak. One of my favorite Americana meals is roast and rice with gravy. I can do that dish quite well. :).

Yes. And eating popcorn. And the dark. Holding hands during the right spots or kissing .....How much do i enjoy going to live theater?I enjoy it very much. Have been to see 'Phantom of the Opera' on Broadway in New York original cast, with the only black phantom in Los-Angles, and twice in New Orleans. On the opposite end of the live theatre - went and saw 'Greater Tuna' and 'Tuna Christmas' in Orange a couple of times. It is so funny! The writers and actors are from Texas and it has only 2 actors in it. They change clothes for each part and speak differently. It's a hoot.

A park is right down from house and I walk to it often in the summer and the beach is not cool with me. Like. Do it a lot. Usually have a paperback in my purse.

Yes. 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 1700 (about) sq. feet. In a nice neighborhood.Football, soccer, basketball, volleyball, baseball (softball).....I had one Toyota Corolla 2009.

Music taste runs from Contemporary Christian to old 70's rock and roll and a lot in between. Country Western, some new age, lots of different kinds.

What are my three favorite movies?There are more than 3 I can watch more than once. Old movies - a musical from the 60s - 'Paint Your Wagon', 'The Quiet Man', 'The King and I'. Funny ones - 'Animal House', 'The Princess Bride'. Action Films - 'Star Trek movies', 'Transformers', some old Arnold Swaggerer movies. The 1st dinosaur movie by Michael Criton 'The Lost World' the list goes on......

I don't know - I watch movies without famous people in them. Dennis Qua-id, Forest Whitaker, Mel Gibson, and I don't know all the names.

Who is my favorite actress?The same - I don't know. Meryl Strep always performs well. I don't know all the names....

My favorites music ?Depends on what kind of music. Like Taylor Swift and Carrie Underwood, ---- I don't know. Hard questions. And if i had a Time Machine, where would i go? Oh wow. No where. I am who I am because of life's lessons. If I went forward, I would not know what to do. So, no where.

If i were granted one wish, what would i ask for? I guess I would wish for more money to take care of the people I love and more power to love you more than what you think.

Hope my answers don't scare you off me lol...
Alfred

9}Morning Smile
Thanks so much for the reply am very happy to read from you, you really make me happy and i will like to know you more better even to build up a strong and solid friendship relationship based on trust and honest minded. We need to build up a trust so that we can but have time for each other.... To start can you delete your account on the site?if you don't mind i will be very happy if you can do that and i will do the same thing too.

I must tell you i think about you last night and i pray about you... I went to sleep last night with a smile because I knew I'd be dreaming of you ... but I woke up this morning with a smile because you weren't a dream.I could say that you complete me...but that would be a lie, because when i wake up this morning I long for you more than the day before.You have no idea how good it feels to wake up every morning knowing you are mine and I am yours.Like the sunshine in the morning, may this brighten your day, and remind you that you're thought of in a very warm way.you are the first thing to enter my mind in the morning and the last thing to leave my heart at night..... Honey all i want to say is just Good Morning... hope to read from you..Alfred

10}Good Morning Honey,

I am up so early typing u this email,i couldn't sleep much because i knew from the first words spoken between the two of us, that things were never going to be the same for me anymore, and that I was going to have to sort out these mysterious feelings that I was having. I needed to figure out how it was that you were able to cast such a spell over me. After spending time knowing you, I now know how real passion and love can be. You have opened my heart, and opened the gate to a new world for me. Did you know you had such a power?My life is starting to become so different, even if my days seem the same. And I must confess that it's you who has changed my outlook.. You have opened my eyes to some amazing new possibilities. I will forever be filled with a new sense of wonderand joy, because you have shared yourself with me.I must confess that in some ways I feel inadequate. My mind is questioned, can I match your gentleness? Can I give you feelings as warm and secure as the ones you have bestowed on me? You have chosen to show me such strong passion combined with secure sweet affection, that I can only hope with time you feel a glimpse of the same emotions from me.

After getting to know you better, and going through all the tough times together of getting to know one another, I now know I am in a place I have never been before. I'm in a place that is calm and serene, but exciting and exhilarating, all at the same time. This place is neither a state of mind, nor just one of physical being. It is a place where my soul soars. It is a place I share with you.I'm in a place where, my mornings begin with you in my thoughts, and my days end with you in my mind. I'm in a place where, when good things happen, my first reaction is that I'm excited, because I'll get to share them with you. I'm in a place where, when bad things happen, I know that you'll be there to provide comfort and make the world right again with your simple honest smile, or with your soft caress hand ...i guess and i know it will be.This place that I hold in my heart for you is precious beyond words. You are there, and I am a better man because of it. When i hold u in my arms, u re in a place that u never want to leave, and I pray it is a place u never have to leave. Just know that when i hold u in my arms, u re in the safest, most treasured place in the world.The place that I am in now is the best of all. I see you as someone I can trust, confide in, play with and enjoy life with. You make me so happy.

I can't begin to describe how you really make me feel so I will offer just this: I love you.You are the answer to my passion and my dreams. I live for seeing you ,for being whole with you .Now that you have given me the gift of your love, my appetite for you is endless. When ever i m typin you an email or chatting with you, the world goes away. I feel only you. I breathe only you. I sense only you. Our time together is very special to me.. There are very few moments that a man knows will linger with him for the rest of hislife, and you have already given me many.Thank you for being such an extraordinary part of my life. I hope we will continue this journey together for a long time to come and eternity.

i just wanna ask you some few questions though just to learn more about you before we are together.one first question for you:Do you think would make a good couple?Do you think its wise for couples to live together before marriage? Honesty is always the best policy, even if it hurts?Pls write a few hint on this.Is Marriage forever?What do you consider the most important part of a relationship?Do you feel comfortable asking your partner anything?What role do you think a wife should play in a marriage? What role do you think a husband should play in a marriage?Do you believe in God?Do you believe in an afterlife?Do you believe in religion?Do you believe in abortion?Do you believe in interracial relationships?Do you believe in homosexual relationships?Do you believe life exists on other planets?Do you believe Creationism or Darwinism?

Pls i plead with you to give me a detailed answers to these 16 questions,you ve been asking me questions and i have been giving you my answers. so pls help me this time to give answers to these questions.Thanks i look forward to hearing from you honey.So long for now.I hope u had a wonderful night filled with the dreams of me.
Alfred

11}Hello Sweetie
How are you doing honey,
Here I sit alone closing my eyes praying to be loved and held by another. My heart aching with lonliness tears finding their way down my cheek wanting desperatly for you to take my hand and lead me to love. Honest sincere and deep love the kind that defies time or explanation. Someone who knows me and wants all of me. A person who touches me in ways that no other can. Someone with whom our heart beats a little faster at the thought of being together, an intamancy only the two of us shares...
We can share a glance that says I cant wait to be alone with you Never taking the other for granted. Sharing our hopes dreams and desires with and in life only love. Please take a hold of me, my love and never let go Let us begin a life of complete understanding, compassion, passion and the deepest of all love. Take my hand and lets begin the journey
Alfred

12}I need a commitment in this relationshiop

Honey,
How are you doing today hope your day was fine i have been thinking about you all day and night. I want us to build up a well strong commitment in this relationship.A commitment in a relationship to me simply means a promise made between Two people To be together Forever and be devoted To Loving each Other ,be Loyal to each other a commitment to Love No other person ,being totally devoted to each other ,a promise to be Loyal and truthful to each other in the relationship, a commitment a devotion a dedication to something strong that becomes a part of someones Life , a part of someones soul, body ...And mind. A commitment of a heart to stay true To a heart, a bond of togetherness.

Looking at what i have written so far someone would Think that a commitment is something easy To do But the Truth is that commitment is far more stronger that anything except the power of Love because i would say that commitment and Love are equals when it comes to the True human feelings ....i would say a commitment would be the end chemistry of Love ... A commitment is like embarking on a quest of a journey to the deep corners of the earth searching for something you believe in so much that no obstacle can stop your from doing so ...

A commitment is when you married to someone you Love ..to always be with him forever through hard and tough times ,in sickness and in health ,for better for worse .A commitment is to be a good respectful woman To Your husband ...A commitment is to raise the kids and take care of the Home and the same Goes for the man ...Cos it would be part of their daily Lives ..

Two souls joined in heaven above,Two hearts bound by love.I see the stars in your eyes,My fire in the dark of night, My strength and guiding light.A deep love we hold Never to die Never again to be alone.Closing my eyes I hear what you say The oneness we became Through all the hurt and pain Never changing your loving ways Together never to part.Our love a gift from God above Deep inside our hearts Forever as one.

Now the question now is are you ready for this commitment? For my Heart has opened Up to you and waiting for you to come take me as i am ...Really ready to make you feel me and know the kind of person i am..I will be looking forward to read back from you thanks...Pls send me more of your pictures..What is the name of your mother,father and your full name.Let me know what you think about this mail.
Alfred

13}I want to start a home with you
Honey,
There is so much I want to tell you, a lot has been running through my head lately. I'm having trouble putting my thoughts into words so you will have to bare with me through this I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep thinking about us and what this relationship means to me. I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand.

This relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with you. I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just right for us. I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and catch me staring at how gorgeous you are.

I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer, if it's possible, to you to keep warm.I want to see you laugh like crazy at me when I do stupid stuff. I want to rub lotion all over your body because you laid out in the sun too long. I want us to take care of our animals together(if possible) and go through the experiences of parenthood with you. I want to see you and me chasing our animals around the house, all of us laughing our heads off and having fun.

I want to hold you when you cry and smile with you when you smile.Iwant to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when I go to sleep. I want to see your bad morning hair; I think it will be so cute. I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sunset,and I want all the people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other.

I want to see you walk down that isle and I want to take your hand for the rest of my life. I want to spend all night, and maybe the next day,making love to you with an undying passion (sorry to be so blunt). I want to be 80 years old and still make out with you like a little schoolboy. I want to cook a meal with you and us totally ruin it and end up doing take out.I want to sit there talking to you for hours about nothing at all but in the same time everything or maybe we won't talk at all and just grin at each other realizing how lucky we are. I want you to get mad at me for doing something stupid, and I want you to bust out laughing when you try to yell at me.

I want to lay with you in front of a fireplace and keep the heat going long after the fire goes out. I want to take trips with you to places we've never been and experience them together. I want us to go skinny-dipping in my pool and get caught and streak back to our hotel room waking everyone up because we're laughing so hard. I want us to go and pick out the hot tub we want with the biggest grins on our faces the whole time. I want the sales rep to get embarrassed when we sit in them and make sure we have enough room to do the things we want to do. I want to hold your hand and let you scream at me while you bring our child into this world(that i so much wish).

I want our friends to come over and get totally jealous because they don't share a love like we do. I want to be walking into a store with you and trip and fall on my face and turn around to see you rolling on the ground laughing at me. I want us to run outside in the rain and act like total kids getting completely soaked, and when we come back in stripping down to nothing as we stumble into the bedroom, or the kitchen counter, or the balcony, or the dining room table, or an office desk, or the shower, which ever one we feel like at the time I want it to take your breath away every time I say, "I love you"because you know it's coming from the heart.

I want us to be sitting there and watching our dogs and cats take their first steps from my arms into yours. I want us to sit down with a box of strawberries, a bottle of chocolate syrup,and a thing of mint chocolate ice cream; well, I'll let your imagination finish that one. I want to love you and be with you for at least forever if not a ittle longer.

I couldn't really express in words what I'm feeling right now so I decided to share with you SOME of the images and thoughts that have been running through my head.I just want you to know that I had never found someone I wanted to spend the rest of my life with until I met you. am really crazy about everything about you...Thinking about you my love i love you so much and i will always do i love you sweetie.
Love you always .
Alfred

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